.:: Sahabat ::.

Salam Alaykum.

Sahabat. Kita tahu apa erti sahabat, kawan dan sewaktu dengannya.
One word that full of meaning. Sahabat.
Someone said, friend like a star.
You don't always see them but you know that they're always there.
For me, friend like a four leaf clover. Hard to find and lucky to have.

Appreciate each of your friends. No matter how much they hurt you.
No matter how much they make you cry. Remember. They did there when you need them.
They're human. Sometimes they forget. They do make mistakes.
Even if they meet someone else or they're not like always, pray for them. Yeah, their happiness.

A friend should know how to forgive their friends.
Never blame them for what happen. If you ever did it, apologize.
You're a human too. Maybe there's something not clear or there's misunderstanding.
Find a way to solve it. Of course, you love the friendship.
Takut setiap butir bicara yang keluar akan menyakitkan hati dia. Lumrah. Then, senyap. Just forgive and forget. It sounds easy, right? Its hard. Actually.

You tried a thousand times before. You did forgive once, twice but they did it again.
Keep make you cry. And lastly, it exceeded your limit. We have to be careful with our words.
For us, it sounds like a joke but not for them. That's why we're always hurt. A word.
You feel it. And sometimes you speak harshly. Just because you're hurt too much.

They have their own reason. Maybe they didn't realize they hurt us. Or nak tukar angin.
Penah rasa macam ni? Maybe bukan semua orang but yeah, there's some of us that facing this problem.
Perasaan bila ditinggalkan oleh someone yang kita rapat. Kita sayang. Not really ditinggalkan.
Just the time you spend together become less, that's why kadar kesensitivian tu tinggi.

But, think again. Mesti ada sesuatu yg berlaku yg buat that person go far away from us.
Tengok balik diri sendiri. Maybe kita terlalu memaksa. Tak paham dia. Kita je betul. Kita nak buat semua benda ikut kita. And maybe our words.
People, if the person leave you, just, don't cry. Their part in your life story is over.
Actually, no matter how much we get angry with someone, it will end up with forgive and forget.

As a best friend, give and take to penting jugak. Haa. Tak boleh le duk kata kau je betul, ye dak?
Yes, kau selesa dgn kawan baru, sbb dia lagi baik, lagi memahami, bla bla bla. Tapi fikir sikit la kan, perasaan orang tu. Kau takut kau terluka tapi kau lukakan hati orang lain. Acane tu?
So, this is all about friend. Or best friend.

Just terfikir, kau tak penah ke teringat kenangan kenangan kau dgn bestfriend kau? Or in a simple sentence, kau tak rindu ke kawan kau tu? Kadang-kadang rasa kan, eh aku tak salah pun. Dia je lelebih. Aku biasa je. Semua kawan aku. Gitu pulak? Tak mengaku la tu. Hehe. Papepun, balik pada diri sendiri. Muhasabah. Tak boleh r nak blame orang lain 100%. Itu unfair.

Friends do make us hurt. Sometimes. Or always. Kawan tu berpotensi utk jadi strangers. One day. If you didn't care about them. So, think what should and shouldn't you do to your bestfriend. Or maybe bestfriend tu je akan describe kau bestfriend tapi kau tak. Ala carte nye, perasan. Giler rare kes mcm ni. Haha. Lagi satu, jgn suka amalkan time susah baru nak cari kawan. No no no. Itu tabiat buruk. And lastly, haaa. Rajin rajinkan la tanya kat kawan tu, how their condition after a few day kau tak lepak dgn dia an. Takde r terkilan sgt. Gitu?

So pada sesiapa yg ada kawan baik tu, please appreciate. Pas baca ni, terus p buat sesi sharing. Kuarkan ape yg tersirat dan tersurat. Oi penting kot sharing. Itulah waktu bonding korang sebenarnye. Kecualilah kawan sebelah pihak tak nak terima butir bicara dlm sesi sharing sbb dia rasa dia BAGUS an. Ok amik kau capslock.

So, serius entry ni takde gambar. Tak tau nak letak gambar ape. Takut salah letak kang, isu lain keluar. Metro muka depan 'Entry konon popular pasal friendship'. K semua. Bye.

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